How To Win A Men’s Hearts?

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You want the mystical gift of making men’s hearts melt don’t you? You have seen it with other women who just seem to effortlessly work their way into men’s hearts and emotions. You have always secretly wished that this was something that you could do even though this ability to make men’s heart melt seems to be a skill bestowed on a few chosen women. In your efforts to get this enviable skill; how do make men’s hearts melt?


Live life without excuses and limits. Men’s hearts melt at women who are living life to the full. You don’t have to have the greatest job in the world or to have a perfect life but you do need to live life joyfully. It doesn’t mean that you don’t have bad days but it does mean that you navigate even the hard and bad times with resolve and a determined expectation that things will get better. This requires that you live your life with enthusiasm and steer clear of a constantly complaining spirit and attitude. Whatever your do in life…give it your all! Men’s hearts melt at women who love life and live with enthusiasm as that love and positive energy is wonderful to be around and it also tends to overflow naturally to them.

Don’t give up who you are for any man (or woman)! Contrary to what many women believe men’s hearts melt for women who are true to themselves. This does not mean that you let him have all your negativity as that is not really who you are; is it? It also does not mean that you pretend that all is well when you genuinely do not feel that way. It’ about being honest about what you feel and think without being nasty or nagging. When you can deal with men in your truth then you will make their hearts melt.

Treat him well without fawning over him.Most women think that if they grovel and flatter men then the men’s hearts will melt. But this tends to work only in the short run as we are naturally suspicious of people who flatter us. In fact after a while we just do not want to be around them as what they say doesn’t ring true to us. We also tend to look down on those who grovel at our feet for some reason as we were really not created with the capacity to be gracious to those who grovel at our feet. So treat him well but as an equal human being who is neither better nor worse than you. If you can do this then you will make men’s heart melt.

Look and feel your best. Take care of your body and dress it to advantage. You may not always feel like putting a lot of effort into your dressing so get simple pieces that show your features to advantage and which you can mix and match. Eat healthily without denying yourself the things that you enjoy. Find an exercise regime that works for you. When you look, smell and feel great you radiate a contentment that melts men’s hearts.

To make men’s hearts melt requires that you make peace with who you are and what you have been endowed with; and then to live your life to full capacity while being true to yourself.

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