Step-1:
Recognize and admit the problem
If
you could not answer “Yes” to the above question then it’s time for you to take
a good honest evaluation of yourself.
Being
honest with yourself is the first step on the path to improve your self-esteem.
When you are dealing with low self-esteem the person you see in the mirror is
not an accurate image of the person you are or could be.
Step-2:
Judge Yourself Based On Your Personal Merits
To
improve your self-esteem you have to break the cycle of self-degradation
because then and only then will you begin to see yourself accurately, the way
that you see others.
Judging
and rejecting any part of yourself can be enormously painful but mentally and
physically.
Step-3:
Take An Accurate Self-Assessment.
To
create an accurate self-description you have to start with accurate data and if
you currently have feelings of low self-worth you will not treat yourself in an
honest manner.
To
improve your self-esteem you need to go over your list with an unbiased person,
someone that will be honest with you so what you have in the end is an accurate
description of yourself.
Step-4:
A Commitment to Personal Improvement.
You
have to carry that list with you wherever you go and if you start to feel
inadequate when you are around others all you have to do pull out your list and
read through your strengths until you begin to feel better.
If
you really want to improve your self-esteem you have to make a commitment to
choose just one of your weaknesses from your list and take steps to improving
that area of your life.
Step-5:
The Form of Compassion.
We
really can be our worst enemy at times. When we are at our most vulnerable
point what do we have a tendency to do?
If
you want to improve your self-esteem you have to be kind to yourself, show
yourself some compassion.
You
are not an idiot because you made a mistake and you’re certainly not stupid, I
mean come on how stupid can you be, you’re reading my site :) Did you smile, at
least a little smile?
Step-6:
Setting Goals and Working to Achieve Them
Nothing
will do more damage to your self-esteem then the lack of forward progress in
life.
Setting
goals for your life will give you something to look forward to and when you
achieve one of those goals you will just naturally improve your self-esteem.
Step-7:
take Actionable Planning
It’s
up to you to set some achievable goals and to set some that are not a sure
thing. You will improve your self-esteem with every milestone you reach along
the way.
You
must get in the habit of making things happen in your life, don’t sit around
waiting and hoping that something will happen get out there and make it happen.
Step-8:
Visualization To Improve Your Self-Esteem:
Through
visualization you can improve your self-esteem, strengthen your self-worth and
build the confidence to set and achieve your goals.
Visualization
has been used for centuries by people from all cultures
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