If you want to remain in your partnership. Lovers who have stayed together for a long period do most if not all of the following means to strengthen their love as a couple.

• Understand your partner. When you became a couple, you were probably got attracted to the best characteristics of your partner. But it should not end there. You should also be able to know and accept your partner’s shortcomings as well.
• Get to know his closest friends and family. Another way to understanding your partner is to know more about his closest friends and family. These people have known your partner from the time he was born and during his growing up years. It is also nice to hear interesting stories from the past.
• Talk openly. Each of you should be able to speak your thoughts and your feelings about anything under the sun. This is vital to cultivating trust between the two of you.
• Say I love you. Tell your partner that you love him every day. This simple sentence serves as a reminder of the love that you share.
• Actions speak louder than words. Even after saying I love you more than once in a day, simple gestures would do a lot to enhance the meaning behind your words. Intimacy builds a stronger bond between couples.
• Forgive and forget. It is sometimes unavoidable for couples to fight. Both of you should talk it out and try to resolve any misunderstandings as soon as possible. When you do, it is best to forgive and forget. Do not bring up previously resolved issues and link them with the current one.
• Utilize the element of surprise. Simple acts such as giving her flowers, or making him a cup of coffee, are simple yet nice surprises. These actions keep the relationship fresh and exciting as it was when the two of you started out together.
• Celebrate ups and downs together. Spend time doing the things that you both love. And when your partner is having some personal difficulties, you should be the first one to support and encourage them.
• Do activities together. Most couples have a shared interest. It could either be taking walks at the park, swimming at the beach, or watching movies together. You could also introduce your partner to doing something that they have not done before. Moments spent together create lasting memories that is fun to talk about in the future.
• Spend some time apart. Even as a couple, the both of you still have your own individual lives to lead. Spending some time apart helps the two of you to grow more as an individual. It does not hurt for each of you to miss each other once in a while. Reunions would then become even sweeter.

In any relationship, communication is important in maintaining good rapport and relations between two individuals. This is especially the case in a married relationship. You and your wife need to be in constant communication with each other, so that you know each other’s needs, feelings and thoughts.

However, communication does not necessarily mean spoken or verbal communication. As psychologists would say, only about 20% of communication is verbal. The rest is non-verbal or unspoken. This could come in gestures, activities, body language, or sometimes even silence. It’s sometimes simple. For example, it means that your wife can show you that she loves you by being loyal, or by serving you break fat in bed or by helping organize your home,office, for instance. At the other extreme, a spouse can also show dissatisfaction by giving you the silent treatment or avoiding the other spouse altogether.

Therefore, understanding your wife’s unspoken needs will be important in keeping a healthy relationship. Here are a few things you should know and do.

• Listen. Listening is a big part of communication. And this does not mean simply hearing what she says. Truly understand what she is telling you whenever she speaks. And, when she shows non-verbal signs, “listen” to these, too. Try your best to understand what these mean.
• Pay attention. Sometimes, your wife will talk to you, but her needs will not be part of the conversation. Still, if you read between the lines, so to speak, you will start to understand what she’s trying to say with her nonverbal and even verbal cues.
• Ask for advice or opinion. Sometimes, you will get context clues and ideas when you ask your wife for advice about important things. This way, you get to understand her opinion and stand on something. Sometimes, you will need to give her the opportunity to talk and express her needs. This way, she doesn’t feel compelled or pressured to initiate talking to you about something.
• Don’t ignore the trivial matters. In other cases, your wife might be too worried about something that seems trivial, such as a lost household object, small unpaid bills, or problems with the neighbors. When this happens, this might be a sign that something bigger is troubling her.
• Connect the dots. Understanding non-verbal cues will sometimes involve a little bit of analysis and logic work. Try to piece together the puzzle by bringing together observations that you gather from your encounters with your wife. If she is being silent or is avoiding a certain topic, then she might have some issues or concerns that are deeper.

With any relationship, the important thing is to show love and respect. Even if you don’t always agree on everything, show your wife that you understand, and that she can tell you what’s on her mind, be these problems, needs, or simply some small matter that is bothering her. Be proactive with listening. This means listening not just to the spoken word or the verbal cues. Rather, try to listen more deeply. Read between the lines, and understand your wife’s actions, so that you can respond to her needs in a more loving way.

What is Rave Party?
There are two forms of rave parties - One is moderate and somewhat is similar to a standard disco - There is music, dance, good food, DJ's, live bands and possibly alcohol. These parties happen within all legal limits.

The second is the extreme version and when people talk about a "rave party" this is what they usually refer to. In addition to music, dance, DJ's, participants of this party often use of banned/addictive drugs, do excessive boozing and even sex. The biggest illegal problem in these parties is the usage of drugs which is illegal by law. Drugs and alcohol are often mixed for a solid kick. It is not easy to find about a rave party, it is like behind the doors activity. Either a phone number is circulated by word of mouth, SMS or through the internet. Although rave parties are becoming common, only a few get reported or result in a police action. 

Combination of drugs and alcohol can not only damage central nervous system in certain cases, there is a risk of getting addicted to these drugs. Kissing is common, girls particularly can be a sexual victim in these parties because intoxication can easily take senses away. If an individual is caught in a rave part and exposed to media, there can be severe legal consciences and also the fear of shame in society to both the individual and his/her parents.

Why are Rave Parties becoming so popular in India?
Money is flowing in India like crazy, never before the youth ever had so much money in hand. Rave parties will often have grown up kids of rich industrialists, IT sector employees, beautiful girls, models, air-hostesses and others people for whom money os not a factor. People often use glowsticks and make designs while dancing. Rave parties are extremely popular during Christmas and New Year. There have been times when even foreigners (like Britain, Israel, Japan, France) have been caught or spotted in these rave parties. These parties are a combination of drugs and a thrilling experience. Not everyone who participates in a rave party consumes drugs, many just come for a first time experience and only eat regular food, some individuals just dance and consume only light alcohol. But if a police raid happens, everyone gets into trouble.

Where's does the rave party take place?
From one of the news references mentioned below, Rave parties are increasingly being shifted to smaller towns because police in big cities are becomming increasingly strict. These take place in farmhouses our in secluded areas outside the main city. Price of drugs is quite high in these parties when compared to the price at which they are available outside.

Who makes Money?
The people who make money in these rave parties are the organizers and the drug dealers.

Popular drugs used in Rave parties include
Ecstasy, Cocaine, LSD(Lysergic Acid Diethylamide), mountain weed, hashish or ganja. They are often taken in combination with alcohol.

Its Illegal - Never attend a rave party
Sometimes police will directly raid these parties and other times they enter the party in plain clothes by purchasing tickets and then catch the individuals red handed. People who are found in the Rave Party are often booked under Section 27 of the Narcotic Drugs and Psychotropic Substances Act of 1985 and Section 294 of the Indian Penal Code. Blood samples are taken to confirm the consumption of drugs. Even if you want to explore what a rave party is, make sure that you fully understand that if you are caught, there will can very serious legal consequences.