Professional hair removal is great, but when you don’t have the time or funds to visit a technician, you can tackle the job on your own. Shaving at home is both easy and inexpensive. Here’s how to get top-quality results every time you shave.

First, exfoliate. Shaving will remove dead skin cells along with hair, and these tiny cells can clog your razor blades, compromising the closeness of your shave and making you prone to nicks if you increase pressure to compensate. Exfoliate first, and you’ll remove most of these dead skin cells. Exfoliating may also help you avoid ingrown hairs.
Get wet. Shower or bathe first, then shave. A good soak can help soften up your hair follicles, priming them for shaving. Never pull a razor across dry skin — the skin is likely to snag on your razor and you’ll create a nick.

Add moisture. A shaving cream, gel, or lotion with added moisturizer will combat dryness and help prevent nicks. Check the ingredients for alcohol and steer clear of products that list it toward the top, since alcohol dries out your skin. A good-quality cream, gel, or lotion is especially important if you’re shaving the thin, sensitive skin of your bikini line.

Choose the right razor. You’ll want one that’s comfortable for you to grip and use. Pivoting heads are popular and are especially useful in uneven spots like kneecaps and underarms. Multiple blades may give you a close shave, and lubricated strips help combat dryness. Whatever you choose, you’ll need to replace the razor or the blade regularly to keep your shave close and nick-free. Be sure to store the razor in a dry place after showering to help extend its life. And, of course, replace a razor if you see any sign of rust.

Take a step in the right direction. You’ll often see advice that recommends shaving in the direction of hair growth. And that’s best for avoiding nicks and razor burn. But an opposite-direction shave — for instance, up from the ankles when you’re doing your legs — will give you a closer cut. And it’s nearly impossible to shave underarm and bikini-line hair in the direction of growth, since those hairs tend to grow scattershot.

Moisturize after you shave. You can’t show off those super-smooth legs if their skin is scaly or flaky. Moisturize to keep them looking and feeling their best.

You’ll have to decide how often you need to shave. Everyone’s hair grows at different rates, so you might need a daily shave, while your friend gets away with every three days. And some women use shaving as their only hair-removal method, while others may shave to touch up between waxings. Of course, there’s the “out-of-sight/out-of-mind” technique secretly popular in the winter months, when body hair is buried under layers of clothing. But you’ll likely feel fresher and more attractive with your body hair removed.



Have you ever tried on a clothing style because it looked cute in a magazine or on a friend, only to look in the mirror and rush to take it off? If so, I feel your pain. Growing up with a taller, thinner, ballet-dancing sister, who looked great no matter what she wore, I always struggled to find styles that looked good on me. Over time, I’ve learned what works for my body, and I stick to those shapes, regardless of trends. Here’s how to dress for your body shape:
If you have curvy hips, avoid pleats and gathers because too much volume can make you look larger than you are. Instead of trying to camouflage yourself with volume, flaunt your curves in a flattering way by wearing fitted fashions. Look for pants and skirts with stretch, but make sure they’re made of substantial, stronger fabrics, like stretch twill and denim instead of thin, clingy jersey, to help smooth out any bulges.

If you’re petite, skirts are for you — just be sure to pick the right length. Even though they’re comfy, maxi skirts will drag on the ground and make you look as if you raided your mom’s closet. Likewise, midcalf lengths will look dowdy. Instead, show some leg so you look well-proportioned — your skirts should hit just at or above the knee. You can even wear a mini!

If you’re pear-shaped, A-line cuts are the most flattering for your petite top and fuller bottom. Avoid boxy cropped tops, baggy cardigans, and swingy jackets that make your waist disappear. Accentuate your smaller waist with belts and cropped, fitted jackets, tailored blouses, and slim-fitting tees. My trick to looking instantly slimmer is to have my pants pockets stitched shut so they don’t gap, giving me a sleeker line. A wrap dress is also very flattering, either for work or for nights out.

If you’re busty, make sure your close-fitting blouses and jackets are tailored perfectly so they don’t pull and gape open in the wrong places. Or opt for flowy tops that are more forgiving. Balance your proportions by choosing bottoms that have a bit more volume so you don’t look top-heavy — for example, pick boot-cut instead of skinny jeans, cargo pants instead of leggings.


Today's divorce rates are high and the average times one will marry in a lifetime is even higher. AboutDivorce.org states that when considering "the current divorce rate statistics, 50% of the marriages end in divorce." Statistics Canada also provides a useful table depicting the divorce trend for the early part of the 2000's. In the next paragraphs, discussed are some steps to take when time get rough on the homefront.


1. Communication
When any relationship hits a rocky patch the first step of action is to take a step back for a moment and evaluate or even discuss with your partner how communication may be lacking. Men and women need to remember, seldom does the opposite sex really understand the other. We are just simply wired differently and unless you spell it out for your partner, word for word, they may not be getting the message you are sending.

When a woman cries, she wants to believe that her man knows what she is crying about. When a man heads out fishing for his day off and your still asleep in bed, he isn't thinking that you may be wondering where he is when you wake up. He is more concerned with gathering up his things up without waking you. Leaving socks and wet towels on the floor just isn't that big of a deal in the world of man, he isn't meaning to leave stuff lying around everyone for someone else to pick up.
Talking about small issues that may be causing much larger rifts in your marriage can be such a quick and satisfying fix. If only more people could find it easier honestly communicate with one this person they vowed to stay with through good times and bad.
2. Quality Time
The second point to consider is how much quality time you are spending together, with and without your children, if applicable. Do you find time for the special outings that brought you together in the first place? Although spending quality time together with family and friends is always important, time together alone is of the utmost significance as well.
3. The Little Things
Are your spouse's little habits that make them uniquely who they are, driving you crazy? Step back for a moment and think about it because chances are these are the little things that make you love them the most. Do they know exactly how to press your button in right order to get you to snap? Sometimes, it is best to just walk away and let it go.
When the little things are getting you or your partner down, maybe a trip to a favorite destination spot or a B&B tucked away up on a mountain would help to spark the flame when times get tough on the home front. Sometimes a change of scenery is the best way to clear the cobwebs from any relationship that may be stuck in the struggle of letting the little stuff get the better of you.
4. Sex
For some the word is taboo. Is there an eerie distance between you and your partner through this marital speed bump? You may want to think about how long it has been since you have been romantically involved with each other? How often do you enjoy each other and does this happen on regular basis? These are all questions that a couple should consider when experiencing troubles. Simply changing it up under the sheets can sometimes brighten the darkest of skies.

5. Seek Counseling
When all else fails and there seems to be no solutions or answers for your marital issues, it may be necessary to seek professional counseling with a licensed marriage counselor. A visit to you family doctor can provide you with an up to date life of the best people to see in you area.
In conclusion, hopefully a resolution can be found between two friends and partners before a divorce is considered or executed. However, in some cases this just is not possible.